I think you're abusing the definition of 'flaming'. Anything that even appears to be mildly critical or insulting, apparently, is flaming? What Jal said might help dear Patrick. It might be that, upon reading that single line of text, Patrick leapt from his seat with enlightenment and had an awakening.@JAL: no flaming, you should know better than that.
Some things just need a big stick, and Jal did just that.